September Goals

Hey y’all… I’m back. 2020 has been a crazy year so far… I made all these goals in the beginning of the year, then Coronavirus came in and wrecked the whole world. I never though in all my days that we would be witnessing a pandemic. And don’t get me started on how much I hate wearing a mask…. yes I know how important it is but it’s too hot under there…. my heart really goes out to the people on the frontline and any who has to wear a mask for an extended period of time…. any who this post is going to be my goals for the rest of the year… I hope this inspires you all to finish 2020 strong.

The first goal I have for the end of the year is to be more consistent on here as well as social media … I will be the first to tell you I struggle with consistency…. I will make whole list of things I need to do…. do 2 things off the list and then take a nap. Part of the reason for that is my depression sucking the life out of me… I have days where I have absolutely no motivation at all. The other part is that I can’t tell you the last time I wore actual clothes… if you wanna see some pictures in sweatpants and over sizes T-shirt’s I’m your girl… I haven’t worn make up since February. I just don’t feel photogenic these days but I need to get myself out there.

My second goal for this month is to get back in to my hair routine… I have taken lazy natural to a whole new level this year… don’t get me wrong my hair is retaining length. Lola is thriving but I have not been treating her the best… I went from doing my hair weekly to washing my hair every 2 to 3 weeks and keeping it in a bun. I mean in some ways it helps because I am not manipulating my hair as much but I need to do better. I know.

My third goal is to pick up a hobby. I feel like I need to be doing something creative. Blogging is creative,however, I want to do other things like write a book or start a craft. These have been weighing on my heart heavy lately so I want try and start one or both this month. I love writing. There is something so therapeutic about writing for me… especially when I can write about whatever I want … that was the reason I started my blog in the first place. I want to take my writing to the next level though.

So there are 3 goals I have for the month of September. Are you setting any goals this month? Let me know in the comments below… as always you can follow me on all my social media platforms… simply click the icon under this post!! I love you all the most!!! Until next time ✌🏽✌🏽

40 Facts About Me!

Hey, #CurlFriends I hope you are doing well. I have been doing this Social Distancing thing which means I have a lot of free time on my hands so I’m catching up on some post!! I missed y’all so much but the last year has been a trying one. I’ll tell you more about that later. Today’s post is 40 things about me. I wanted to post something fun and light-hearted to start off. Here we go……

1. Do you put ketchup on a burger? No

2. Choice of soda? Ginger Ale

3. Do you own a gun? Not telling 

4. Can you swim? No

5.  Any surgeries? No

6. Favorite type of pie? Sweet Potato

7. Do you believe in ghosts? I believe in Spirits 

8. What do you drink in the morning? Coffee or Juice

9. Can you do 100 pushups? Absolutely not 

11. Your favorite hobby? Writing 

12. Tattoo? 4… Plan to get more though

13. Do you wear glasses? Yep

14. Do you have a phobia? Yes 

15. Do you have a nickname? Bree

16. 3 favorite drinks? Sweet Tea, Ginger Ale, Stella Rose wine

17. Favorite pets? I like dogs and cats are ok too depending on the cat

18. Rain or Snow? Rain

19. Can you change a tire? Yep…. Benefits of being a daddy’s girl

20. Favorite flower? Flowers don’t really like me (allergies) but I guess lotus 

21. Can you drive a stick? Ummm I can a Lil bit… need more practice 

22. Ever gone skydiving? No…. Scared of heights so I like to have my feet planted 

23. Kids? No

24. Favorite color? Teal and Yellow 

25. Employed? Yes

26. Can you whistle? Yes 

27. Favorite vacation? Mexico was by far my favorite 

28. Siblings? 2 sisters, 1 stepsister, 2 stepbrothers, and a cousin who is like my sister

30. Shower or bath? Shower

31. Last song you listened to? Circle of Life ( I’m watching the Lion King)

32. Broken bones? No

33. How many TVs are in your house? 3 I think

34. Worst pain? When my IUD came out….. had to go to the ER

35. Do you like to sing? Yes

36. Are your parents still alive? Yes 

37. Do you like camping? I’m not sleeping outside… the way my allergies are set up

38. What do you enjoy binge-watching? Grey Anatomy, Game of Thrones, House, Law and Order, Criminal Minds

39. Pumpkin or pecan pie? Pumpkin 

40. Someone who will play along? Prolly we quarantined and bored. (Social Distancing)

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Get To Know Me Tag!

Happy New Year Family!! 2018 was an intense year for me. I can’t even lie. It was a roller coaster of successes and area of opportunities. However, I am going into the New Year Optimistic. I know that this is going to be my year!! I’m claim it! So because its a new year I wanted to do something fun. Lets get to know me some more. Get To Know Me

1.Where did you grow up? I grew up in Ashland, Va. I also spend half of my childhood in Coatesville Va. ( Gotta love every other weekend visitation)

2.Where do you currently live? I live right outside of Richmond,VA

3. Who is your first best friend? I don’t really have a best friend per say. I have a few really close friends that I love equally. I cant say one is better than the other.

4. How tall are you? 5’2 ( I know, I’m short)

5.Dogs or Cats? Dogs, I don’t do cats…. No thanks

6. Funniest moment throughout high school? I don’t have a funniest moment really… I can’t thing of anything anyway,

7. What year were you born? 1988…. (80’s baby raised in the 90’s)

8. Are you in/have you gone to college? I’m in school… I’m a Psychology major.

9. What is your favorite drink? Sweet Tea and Ginger Ale

10. What is your spirit animal and why? Spirit Animal… I don’t have one of those.

11. You’re wearing perfume, what scent is it? Well I’m not wearing perfume but if i was it would be D&G.

12. Tea or Coffee? Coffee

13. What are your life goals? To inspire others, to be successful, to be the first millionaire in my family.

14. What sports do you play or have you played? I didn’t play sports.

15. Have any books you read changed your life? The bible.

16. What is your favorite movie? Brown Sugar

17. Who are your favorite YouTubers? I have a blog on this already you can check that out here

18. Do you speak any languages and how well? I took 3 years of Spanish in High School and 2 years in College and I can’t speak it at all. I can ease drop on some conversations though.

19. Are you single or taken? I am very much single.

20. What is your idea of your dream date? Dinner and something fun like Skating or a Amusement Park.

21. How long was your longest relationship? 2 years

22. How would you describe your fashion sense? I like to keep things simple for the most part but every once in a while I like to pop out.

23. What is your go-to hairstyle? Wash and Go, and Buns. you can read more about how I achieve my popping Wash and Go’s here.

24. How many siblings do you have? I have 2 half sisters, 2 step brothers and a step sister.

25. What is your go to fast food order? Chickfila #1 Colby Jack Cheese

26. Do you use PC or a Mac? PC but I want a Mac….. One day.

27. Your most memorable vacation memory? Going to Myrtle Beach for my 22nd Birthday, It was the first vacation I took with my friends….. no parents.

28. What are your morning, evening routines? Morning: Wake up, Pray, Shower and stuff, get dressed, out the door. Evening: Eat dinner, write, watch TV til i go to sleep.

29. Do you have any bad habits? Caffeine…. does that count. Also I have to sleep with TV on.

30. Tell us one thing about you that we wouldn’t know! One thing y’all wouldn’t know about me is that I’m scared of birds….. I have a story time about that here.

Want to hear more? I’ll be uploading the extended version of the “Get to Know Me Tag” on my YouTube page this week!! Yes, you read that correctly I’m starting my YouTube page this week. Make sure you are subscribed to my channel. You can do that by clicking here

Natural Hair Rules I Don’t Follow

I just celebrated 9 years since I had decided to go natural. I will say that during that time I have learned a lot about my hair. My curls have flourished and my hair is the longest that it’s ever been. But with that being said I don’t always follow the common rules ya’ll like to establish for natural hair. Now before you all go and start judging me let me make this clear, I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL!!! I just like to do what works for me, and as a result, my curls are popping and my edges are intact. Here are some rules I donot follow and the reasons why…

I’m Colored Treated.

I actually started exploring with hair color long before I became natural. I don’t want to hear that coloring my hair doesn’t make me less of a natural. Save it. There are such things as a color treated naturals. Honestly, I’ve had color in my hair for so long; I don’t feel right with dark hair. I tried it and I was not a fan. Now I will say that because I have been coloring my hair for so long I don’t always seek a professional before coloring. I recommend that if you are new to color that you seek someone who knows what they are doing. Especially if you want hair color that is going to last you want to keep your hair from being damaged in the process.

Sulfates are my Friend

I honestly don’t mind some sulfate shampoos for my hair. I know that they are not ideal but sometimes I need that squeaky clean hair. Sulfates do tend to strip your hair of their natural oils so I recommend if you are going to use a sulfate shampoo that you deep condition. Add as much moisture back in your hair as possible. I have not noticed any damage or dryness from using sulfates on my hair but at the end of the day, you do what’s best for you. I use shampoos based on how they make my hair feel during and after shampooing. I even went some time just using sulfate free shampoos and honestly, I didn’t really see too much of a difference in my hair.

I haven’t canceled Eco Style Gel

You all can cancel eco all you want but she works wonders for my curls so she is not going anywhere. Period…Point…Blank!!! I know that a lot of YouTubers have been complaining about the ingredients of the Eco Styler Gel but I have not had any problems and I have been using it since the beginning of my hair journey. Now, with that being said, I have found some other gels that work great for my hair as well. I have made flaxseed gel that did great as well as Aloe Vera Gel too. Both these natural gels have given me great results but Eco is way more convenient. I recently tried the Wetline Xtreme Gel on my hair, that’s the new gel people are raving about and I’ll do a full review coming up in a few days. My favorite Eco Style Gel right now is between the Cannabis and Sativa Oil and the Flaxseed and Black Castor Oil Gels. I have a review on the Cannabis and Sativa Oil Gel that you can look at here.

I only wear Wash and Go’s

I don’t have a lot of explaining about this one but my hair only likes Wash and Go’s. I didn’t a whole article on this…. You can check that out here. I have tried twist outs and braid outs but my hair always ends up being frizzy. I really just need to find the right products for my hair that will provide me with the results I need but until then I’ll be washing and going out this door. (After I diffuse my hair of course) Yes, that’s right I purchased a diffuser a few weeks ago. I’m still learning how to perfect using it but you know once I do that I’ll come to you all with a review.

I’m not afraid of heat

Every natural is concerned with getting heat damage after straightening. I used to saythat I wasn’t concerned that I will get heat damage because I don’t straightenmy hair often. That is until I straightened my hair and got some heat damage inthe front. I only put heat on my hair two to three times a year. Now, I will warn you, you have to do what is best for your hair. When I straighten my hair I use a heat protectant and I try to get it as straight as possible. I don’ttouch up my hair after the initial flat iron session. Even though I followed this I still got some heat damage it wasn’t as bad as it could have been and I was able to bring my back in order. I know what I did wrong and I know thatit’s a risk that you take.

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No New Years Resolution For Me

Man, Its December already. 2018 has come and gone already. Every time at the end of the year I like to do a self-evaluation. This most will be some things that I want to improve on not even for the upcoming year but for my life in general. Some of these I have already started. I don’t believe in New Year’s resolutions but these will be lifestyle changes and goals that I plan on meeting.

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Birds of a Feather ( Story Time)

Story Time

Have you ever been attacked by a bird? Well, I have. Don’t laugh I know you are reading this laughing right now. But I am going to tell you how this happened. This is a new segment that I am starting on my Blog. I have some crazy stories and I want to share them with you so let me introduce you to story time with Bree. Here we go….

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So You Wanna Be a Blogger? Tips I’ve Learned Along The Way

So you want to be a blogger: 8 things I’ve learned along this journey.

So I have been blogging for almost a year now. Something I always wanted to start but didn’t think I had anything to say that people would really care about. Now over 700 subscribers later I am so grateful that I decided that I would just do it. I have learned so much over these last 12 so months, so I wanted to document it so that I could help someone out there who is reading this and thinking about starting a blog of their own. Here are 10 things that I learned during my process.

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